A few months ago I had the pleasure of seeing Norah Jones in concert. The tickets were bought at Christmas but the concert  was near my birthday in May.  Mr. K and I decided to combine our night with Norah to be a night just for ourselves and rented a hotel room. We dressed up for the occasion and I wore a beautiful new pair of open toed black heels with a long black and white maxi dress. When we got to the hotel room, Mr. K had only one thing in mind and he was practically tearing my dress off of me before the door shut. I went to slip off my shoes and he said “O No, I want you to wear those!”

What is it about shoes that turn men on? Especially high heels and leather boots. Some say it is because it makes a woman’s legs look longer and sleeker. Others say that a woman in high heels have better posture and their boobs and butt poke out more and it accentuates the curves. Some men say they like the way women walk in them, that they appear more confident and sexier. Whatever it is, there is no doubt that men find women more attractive in sexy, high heel shoes and see them more as a piece of lingerie than something to keep the feet from injury or cold.

So ladies, I have to tell you a good pair of fuck me shoes are in order to add to your trunk of lingerie. Just imagine what a turn on it can be for you man if he came home from work and all you had on was a pair of leather boots

( Sara O’Flaherty )

or red high heels

(@MommyNeedsMeds)

or something like this

( @angi33 )

or this

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and this is steamy with the outfit

(@VampireSmitten )

I bet it would lead to some hot and heavy fucking. And having a pair of shoes on doesn’t get in the way, in fact it could really spice things up. High heels make you taller and may make things more accessible for your man. Imagine being bent over the kitchen table or bathroom counter and your husband taking your from behind. Add a little S&M into your foreplay with a good pair of spiked shoes. This might be a good time to wear some riding boots and grab a crop and ride a cowboy if you know what I mean. However you may need a hat too to totally pull it off cowgirl style. And if you are doing it missionary style you can always prod your man with your heels to either slow things down or speed things up – just saying! Not that I have ever done anything like that. :::looks around innocently:::

The thing is, sex doesn’t have to be bland. Spice things up. It doesn’t have to be anything fancy, it can be as simple as wearing a pair of sexy shoes, using a blind fold, wearing nothing but an apron and having a wooden spoon in your hand, sexual enhancements that help bring on orgasms, or trying something new. Sex is supposed to be fun and enjoyable for you and your partner. Keep things lively and don’t be afraid to try something new – like those boots Sara has on!

This post would not be complete without a GIVEAWAY!!! I would like to thank the people of KY for sponsoring my post today on BlogHer@Home and providing TWO very lucky readers the chance to win a prize pack of their Yours+Mine products. Winners will receive the NEW K-Y KISSABLE SENSATIONS but also a K-Y YOURS+MINE lubricant.

To Enter: Please let me know if you have a pair of Do Me Shoes in the comments or your best piece of lingerie that turns your partner on. A winner will be announced next Thursday, same time and place, so you have until Wednesday to get your entries in.

Last Weeks Winners!!! Random.org picked out no. 4 and no. 1. Congratulations FluentFamer and habanerogal!!!

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